Two Viewpoints on the Orgasm Gap

I was beginning to think of my ‘virginity’ as bothersome. A thing of which I’d feel embarrassed to confess ownership, when the time came to get intimate with a partner. It was unexpected and disappointing when my first 3 encounters of foreplay with another left me feeling underwhelmed and frustrated.

This did not protect me from the crushing disappointment when fooling around with youthful boyfriends only got me slightly horny and they seemed hell bent on their pleasure, with no effort made to make me cum. A guy could easily go off like a rocket, while my reward was a slight buzz. The sensations they evoked in me, but did not follow through on, left such unsatisfied urges that I suffered cramps like period pains. This made me feel just as grumpy. I knew from solo play that I could scale mountains of great pleasure, but the boys did not seem to have the wherewithall to take me there.

In my early twenties my dick was always rock hard — the proverbial ‘rod of iron’ — and women my age were keen to see it, touch it, grab it, and stuff it into their tight little pussies and make it squirt. If I could make them cum too then that was a bonus — but that was never the focus of our sexual encounters.

Back then (the 80s) women seemed more intent on getting the men off, almost as if that was the measure of…

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